Recently, the Lord revealed to us at the fellowship the ideology of The Mathematics of Life. In it God wanted us to know how life is a complexity in which our major role is to continuously solve, resolve and rectify the complex of life.
THE COLOR OF LIFE
Life appears in Black and White but to live life is to identify the ever-present grey area in all matters. In other words, things are not always as they appear. The problem with young men is to assume that life is a conclusion and therefore it is what it is, what it smells like, talks like and acts like.
WHAT IS
Young people must understand this and understand it early that life has two versions of WHAT IS and these are: 1. REALITY and 2. PERCEPTION. 300 years before Jesus lived, there lived a man known as Confucius and he said: LIFE IS EASY DO NOT COMPLICATE IT.
The wisdom in this is what I call the two sides of WHAT IS as I have indicated above. Life, in reality, is easy for it is about LIVING and in reality it gets complicated by the way we perceive and exercise it.
Now this where the mathematics of life becomes hard for many of us especially for the young among us. When we are young, WHAT IS is the hardest thing to decipher. Our eyes and body inform our minds instead of the mind serving our eyes and body.
The first lesson, therefore, young people must learn is to come to grips with REALITY. How you perceive reality has nothing to do with reality. In life LIVING and DEATH are not relative, and it doesn’t matter one’s perception, you will either live or die and the greatest shame and loss is twofold: 1. Failing to LIVE RIGHT EARLY and, 2. DYING DIAGNOSTICALLY.
LIVING RIGHT EARLY
The most successful adults and senior citizens are largely those who begun to live-right early. Life is a series of choices and every choice you make has both present and future implications. Those who are successful in life are the ones who begun early making the right choices. Between 17 and 26, the foundation of one’s life is dug and whatever that individual does from that point henceforth is placed on that very foundation. It is around that age that the next life is patterned after. In fact, there are many of us (like myself) who messed up that time and all we have spent our next life doing is undoing and breaking the hard-core foundations we laid at that age due to lack of guidance.
What you are doing right now is preparing for the next life. This is why am asking the young brothers who are sexually active that it is wrong to fail twice. Young men fail twice by first DISOBEYING GOD in being sexually good stewards of their sexual organs and feelings and secondly, they fail in the continuous SELF-BETRAYAL.
When we disobey God’s wisdom and obey our hormones and blood pressure, we set ourselves on a path of earthly destruction and the math of life here continues to become more complicated for us even to solve in all the time of our living.
Youthful masturbation will result in a sexually dysfunctional marital life. Multiple sexual partners before marriage have a default result of a comparative mindset as you lay with your future official spouse. And that is not to mention the demons you are transacting with every person you sleep with this early.
Do not betray yourself, don’t be a self-Judas by betraying yourself with a sweet kiss, sweet romantic life, sweet but harmful habit – drugs, alcohol, and regular presence in bars, and disco halls.
I have always told people at my fellowship that a person must start going to a disco club, taking alcohol, stealing, fighting and all sorts of nuisance at the age of 60. It is a sign of dying early when youths are the majority players in the business of those over 60.
MAKE AND DON’T MAKE BABIES
While a baby is physiologically a product of sexual intercourse, that human being is an already made person by God (Jeremiah 1:5), so it serves us better to understand this truth before we carelessly start ushering in God’s people in our messed-up world.
Don’t abuse God’s people by making babies just like that. You are 25 and you already have three children of different co-parents. Do you see how you have patterned your life henceforth?
For brothers, please don’t make babies outside a marriage setting, they will disturb your career, your life, and your future family.
For my sisters, if you are 25 you still have three years to get married and make a baby in an organized setting so I don’t care how much love kids and like being a mother don’t just make babies.
Fatherhood and motherhood are marital exclusive vocations and not statuses to achieve. Your fatherhood or motherhood outside an organized setting (marital) is equivalent to the parenthood in the animal world.
But ladies, if you are 30yrs and above not married and without a child the mathematics of life switches. Here you have to make real tough decisions. You decide either to hope for a marriage without a child or one with all the risks, or a single childless lady or a single parent. These are tough decisions that you have to make at that age of 30 and above because of how you lived (Believed and Behaved) between 17 and 25 Life is that serious. And I am not saying that if you live right early you will always have a successful life later, that is not how life operates like I told you earlier, it is not always in BLACK and WHITE, there is always a GREY area. There is always an unexplainable GAP and that is what we Christian Theologians call LIFE IN A FALLEN WORLD (sin).
All I am saying, is try as much as you can in your early years to suffer in future problems and issues that are diagnostic. And this brings to my other final point.
DYING DIAGNOSTICALLY.
What I call dying diagnostically is when in the casket we have a victim of reckless driving, a young man who died in a stupid fight like Mozey Radio did, when we have the corpse of someone who failed to avoid H. I. V and again failed to manage AIDS and was killed. Dying diagnostically is when we bury you because you fell-off a lorry or motorcycle or you were shot by the police as you were running after politicians like President Museveni or Besigye etc.
Young people die for real Madrid and Barcelona, young men die in sports betting places. Young people die diagnostically and it is a shame.
Young men, don’t be like some of us adults who are suffering diagnostic problems today. We are treating obesity, we are treating STIs, we are dealing with different baby mamas and daddys. I could go on and on but what is perhaps too late for us is on time for you. I really want you to know at this age what I should have known THEN for a better NOW.
Yes, we will in one way or another die and suffer but we must always strive not to die diagnostically. Though poverty might be a fallen world issue your lack of money is a diagnostic problem. Young lady, you are being stupid too early to assume that you can use your body to make money and still retain your body to enjoy the same money. The mathematics of life communicates that life is not money but to enjoy life you need money. Good life mathematicians, therefore, know how to get money without sacrificing what matters most.
Young man, you won’t be young forever, age is seasonal, today’s adults were yesterday’s youth. Both Youth and Adults are time frame names, so be calculative with your time, it doesn’t matter how old you, and how much you have done in that time, the mathematics of life asks only one thing: WHAT HAVE YOU DONE.
If it is right that now you are struggling WITH a diagnostic problem, then this is your chance to avoid or deflect the next one.
I have written to you as a failure and trust me, failures are the best teachers to those who want to succeed for they (failures) point out danger areas of life and living. I did not write to you because you are bad young people, I wrote to you because you are a few of the sober young people I have met. I did not write to you to teach you HOW TO live your life, I wrote to you to teach you HOW NOT to live if you are to live the life you want to live. I wrote to you this open letter because in my life I have learned that THERE ARE NO GENERATIONAL CURSES BUT GENERATIONAL CHOICES.
Your MORNING impacts your EVENING please live right early.
God bless you, I invoke TRUTH, WISDOM, and FAITH (2Tim 2:7)
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