Relationship Dilemma

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Dear my Pastor

How are you…praise God and thank you for the wonderful work you are doing. I have a question and I seek your help.

I have two men in my life who are interested in me. One is loaded with money and all the materialism I really need and want. He claims to be in love with me and he is a good man apparently.
The other man is does not have that much, compared to his opponent, but he is serious and sincerely convincing on the love issue.

Think with me pastor….who is the best husband candidate?
Thank you my dear pastor
I will be waiting to hear from you.

PASTOR I. T WHITE

Thanks my dear sister and I hope all is well. I think the only thing missing in your dilemma and in fact which has caused the most confusion in your issue is the fact that YOU ARE MISSING. you have taken time to analyzed these two men but you have not taken time to analyze YOU. what I call the ‘I’ ANALYSIS’

THE ‘I’ ANALYSIS

I ANALYSIS is when an individual sits themselves down and they get hard on themselves and be as honest as they can be. In this session individuals ask themselves two important questions and make sure they supply real, exact and honest answers regardless of how uncomfortable those answers make them feel.

These two questions are:
1-WHO AM I?
2-WHAT THEN DO I WANT?
People who know who they are, find it easy in their environment. And what we always want in life depends so much almost 90% on who we are.
So my sister stop wasting time being other minded (analyzing how good or bad these men might be at the expense of how good or bad you might be ) it is always important that we establish who we are to confirm on what we want to so as to avoid choosing everything in the variety the world offers outside there.

Let me demonstrate: if you go to a market or a super market without a specific “shopping list” but with money, you will end up bringing at home four kinds of goods:
1-what you want not what you need
2-what you already have
3-what is not fitting
4-And by chance what you need.

Now I ask…WHO ARE YOU? are you this kind of dependant woman who would be bought off from their parents in the name of dowry and go ahead become a hired housewife maintained and serviced by the funds of her husband, or you are this financially independent woman in search of love from a man not a donation? The way you answer this question will automatically qualify one of the candidates and by default disqualify the other.

Let me assure you. Whatever choice you make you will be right. Do you know why!!? THERE IS NOTHING LIKE A WRONG CHOICE, IT IS ALWAYS US WHO ARE WRONG IN THE FIRST PLACE.

so if you want money, please go with the rich man and all you need to do is to prepare to pay the cost….and if you want love…go with love and just determine to stand the conditions of stripped love.

Yours Pastor Isaiah White Tumwine
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