It is one that is:
1-True
2-Logical
3-Beautiful
4-Functional
Let me demonstrate using a sexual relationship mode. How do I know it is a good decision to marry her?
True
It must be TRUE that I love her…this truth must first be drawn from “within” (self) then from “without” (environment). While given our self-falseness we might always be wrong on what we love…the environment (universe) is consistent… So please always test your truth in the outside world….don’t be a village champion… Compete in the Olympics too.
Logical
What is logical is not something that is always good, it is rather what is right, reasonable and sensible. Is it logical to marry her knowing I want this and she doesn’t have it or not prepared to give it…or let’s say she has promised to give it, but what am I prepared for as I enter into it upon a promise…am I prepared for the “good” or for the “worst”!!? Logic tells you that the survival of what you have decided depends so much on what you are prepared for.
BEAUTIFUL
whatever you decide must always have an impressive appearance. Look at political assassinations…it either poison, or an accident. Beautiful, Beautiful, Beautiful way of doing a dirty work…apply beauty to your decision, it doesn’t always need to be a conspiracy theory approach but you just have to decide neat.
FUNCTIONAL
The only reason we decide is due to progress, effectiveness and efficiency. You better not decide if you are going to stay where you are and the same person. We decide for solutions not for more problems or conflicts…so before you decide (solution) ask yourself what am I solving (problem). Is this decision functional or a temporary pain killer?
Now whatever you may consider relative in the above, has a constant (reality) that it quantifies and qualifies.
I T WHITE
@Think and Become (Inspirational link)
